Whether actual or imagined, I have come to find a very real issue of travel guilt happening among females seeking girl getaways. Between societal pressures and – even moreso – our own self-imposed expectations, we women may experience a variety of guilt that ultimately influences us not to take that girls vacation we’ve been tossing around in our minds.

1. Work Guilt

As an American living in Southern Europe, I’ve seen an incredible paradox. Friends would comment about the vacation month that I would get, followed by a playful grumble about how it must be nice to never work. In the beginning, I felt a twinge of guilt. It did seem excessive to close up shop that long. But then, I observed a few seasons, and I realized an important truth. Europeans truly “vacate”. They recuperate. They come back from a restful August pleasant and focused. They take every. Single. Day. And they don’t apologize. Sometimes with even the smallest budget, they come up with creative getaways to explore new places and be inspired. I too found that I needed it and came back recharged in all my roles again.

As for the States, one survey suggested that in 2015, 41% of them didn’t take a vacation day at all. Some “staycationed” (a.k.a. worked from home with occasional trips to the local club pool.) Americans took paid vacation in their hands then set it back on the table, saying, “Eh…no thanks. I prefer to work through this one.” But why? Is it that we live in a workaholic culture, a feeling of returning to piles of work? A notion that no one can do it but you, and the company will disintegrate in your absence? Or just that Janelle in the next cubicle has been killing it and you’re both vying for that major promotion, so you want to one-up her? The headline of this article alone hit me in my gut – Americans Waste Record Setting 658 Million Vacation days. What?! Come on ladies, it’s time to take them back.

2. The Significant Other Guilt

I’ve heard it time and time again.

“Oh, I hang with the girls, but I only travel internationally with my husband.”

“We do nights out, but I usually take trips with my boyfriend.”

All relationship dynamics are different, and some women prefer only to travel with their significant other. Cue Britney Spears beat – that’s your prerogative! The men and women that make up our “other half” are wonderful, extraordinary people. That’s why we picked them to walk next to us in life. And, chances are, we really really enjoy traveling with them as well – they’re a great time. However, some women would also like to take girls trips, but feel bad in doing so. A girlfriend getaway is a completely different feeling than traveling with our beloved, as is a solo trip an introspective journey in itself. So why do we feel sometimes that we can’t leave them behind for a few days? Is it a fear of having separate experiences, or that our significant other will feel rejected?

Some words I recently read by Oneika the Traveller resonated with me, “Nuturing other relationships is important…even when you’re married.” Balancing all the people we love and care for in our life can be a challenge when we’re so busy. Having independent experiences is healthy and allows us to miss our mates. Traveling with sisters and friends could even have a positive impact on your relationship. Win, win!

3. Mama Guilt

I know so many ladies whose children are their world. They are the best mamas I know. But I’ve seen them at times hanging by a thread. Tired, burnt out…especially single mothers who don’t have the opportunity to share the parenting responsibilities at home. Parents need alone time and a little recuperation as well. It’s a full-time job with no breaks or bank holidays. We believe taking a weekend jaunt is the equivalent of a mind and soul power nap – it might be just what you need to come back and give your kids your very best.

4. Me Guilt

We ladies can be awfully hard on ourselves. I shouldn’t spend the money. I shouldn’t go somewhere so extravagant. I need to focus. The best part of all is that a trip can renew us and makes us more focused, more creative, more ready to tackle the world, and better able to show up in our work, relationships and families as they need us. It’s about time you take that girls trip!

Amidst all the dreaming and scheming surrounding a wedding, couples surprisingly neglect one important thing: the honeymoon. Why is it so often put on the back burner? Whether it be budgetary or just lack of time for planning, spouses-to-be often put all the emphasis on the day of instead of their own getaway the day (or days) after. Whenever and wherever, the honeymoon is a wonderful way to de-stress after the wedding buzz and start your new journey in life together. Here’s our honeymoon planning tips to help it go off without a hitch.

1) Don’t leave it ‘til the last minute. We know, easier said than done. With all of the things to do – dress, venue, guest list – the honeymoon just doesn’t feel like a priority. However, you won’t realize how badly you crave that special getaway with your new spouse until the time is upon you. Planning ahead helps ease the stress, can be more affordable, and is a fun thing to share just between you two.

2) Get help. While you and your hubby-to-be want to dream and plan it, a professional travel planner can listen to your vision and create a trip with things you didn’t even know existed. Plus, there are perks such as free upgrades and little-known places that your travel expert can offer. By allowing a planner to handle time-consuming details, you’re free to focus your time and energy on the big day.

3)  Skip the morning after departure. While it may sound romantic to be whisked off the day-after, you will likely be exhausted, disorganized, and may want to take a few days to savor the moment with close friends and family. We don’t suggest delaying it significantly as the honeymoon has its very special place in your nuptial celebration. Just don’t feel the pressure to run out the next day.

4) Create a reasonable itinerary. Whether you’re taking a safari in the jungle or unplugging on a remote beach, ultimately, you want to relax and enjoy one another.  Don’t fall into the trap of trying to see everything – hopping locations day to day will be tiring and can dampen your honeymoon. What might seem like a great idea leads to constant repacking, check-outs, and waiting at ports or airports. Try to stay at least 2-3 nights in each place.

5) Decide what counts. Pick a place, vibe, and budget that suits you…don’t just jump on the first cheap travel deal you see or take someone else’s honeymoon. Chances are it might not live up to your expectations. You and your partner are like no other, so plan a trip that uniquely suits you. Think about what kind of adventure, or retreat, would be best for you both. After all, this is your first journey of many.

After popping countless hors d’oeuvres, clinking glasses, and belting out Auld Lang Syne off key (or was that just me?)…it’s time to ponder what we hope to achieve in the year ahead. Here’s why we believe traveling more should be your New Year’s resolution.

1. Because you deserve it after 2016.

From a tumultuous election and global political turbulence, to losing many of our beloved artists and public figures – it seems we all could use a fresh start after last year. What better way to shake it off than pack up and gain fresh perspective from a bit of jet-setting?

2. Nothing inspires change like travel.

Live a happier life. Meet new people. Challenge your comfort zones. We find that travel can be the answer to many other popular New Year’s resolutions that people set each year. It can make us happier, wiser, more cultured, and more tolerant. If you’re looking to really make some positive changes this year, traveling just might be your way to do it.

3. Because it’s easier than ever.

Unfortunately, traveling is also a commonly broken New Year’s resolution. When it comes down to the headaches of planning or budgeting, people often let this one slip. However, many apps, websites and travel planners make this part easier than ever to book affordably. Travel bloggers are constantly introducing us to new and fun experiences. Airlines continue to add new hubs and airports, and it seems the travel industry is increasingly more connected.

4. It’s a fun one.

I enjoy dieting on tasteless foods and killing myself at the gym, said no one, ever. Alright, jokes aside, working on your body and striving to be healthy is a great resolution as well. But luckily “no pain, no gain” doesn’t apply to travel. Traveling allows us to encounter new cultures, try new foods, and embark on new adventures. From camping in Dubai’s desert to dog-sledding through Iceland’s terrain, there’s an experience for everyone in 2017.

Tis the season once again to gather for the holidays. Don we now our glittery apparel and ring in a bright brand new year. Citizens of the world celebrate in unique ways, from massive firework displays to elegant balls and epic street parties that last ‘til dawn. These are our picks for the best New Year destinations.

1. CAPE TOWN

This eclectic South African city gives new meaning to “after party”. It celebrates New Year’s on not one, but three incredible days, dating back to the 19^th century when slaves were given one day off, January 2. On this day, The Cape Minstrels (also known as the Kaapse Klopse) take over the streets of the Mother City with white-painted faces and colorful garb singing tunes that date back to the 1800s. Today, this Second New Year Street Parade, known as Tweede Nuwe Jaar, has combined old with new and includes some modern songs with a twist.

Why we love it: For its diversity. There’s something totally unique for everyone, from a trance party to a black-tie five-course dinner, complete with a red carpet. But our favorite has to be climbing Table Mountain where picnickers get an incredible view of the firework show as the year changes.

2. REYKJAVIK

You’d think that with only four hours of daylight the mood would be somber, but the folks in this northern capital are more than ready to have a good time come New Year’s. The festivities begin with massive bonfires, which originated from Icelandic fisherman in the Middle Ages burning things from the previous year to prepare for the new. The tradition continues as people symbolically burn the year past in readiness for a fresh start.

Why we love it: It’s about camaraderie. There’s something incredible when a large-scale celebration is organized for and by the people. There are no official fireworks or happenings from the city, these are just the locals putting on an impressive show themselves and coming together. For a great view of the 360 fireworks display, watch from Reykjavik’s famous landmark and water tower, the Perlan (Pearl).

3. EDINBURGH

Repeatedly mentioned as a must-see experience, Scotland’s unique Hogamany Festival boasts one of the most extravagant celebrations in the world. The three day festival begins with the spectacular Torchlight Procession, where visitors join over 40,000 people as they illuminate the city and finish in a breath-taking fireworks display. The festival also features top bands and fun activities for all.

Why we love it: For its spirit. It’s no wonder the Scots have such a passion for this event, considering “Auld Lang Syne” was written by Scotsman Robert Burns. As the bells strike midnight, join hands with people from around the world in the biggest (and loudest) rendition of this iconic song.

4. NIAGARA FALLS

How do you make a breathtaking landmark like Niagara Falls even more impressive? Light up the night sky with fireworks and lights, as the colors dance on the rushing water. Canada’s biggest NYE bash takes place here, where Queen Victoria Park hosts a free concert of Canadian musicians and a magnificent firework display begins from Niagara Gorge when the clock strikes 12. The Winter Festival of Lights illuminates a 5 mile route with millions of lights, featuring a sound-light show and a 3D Projection Mapping Show, so its no wonder this gorgeous display made our list for best New Year destinations.

Why we love it: It’s free. Donations are welcome, and it’s great to give what you like from your heart rather than pay a ticket.

5. VIENNA

Whether you’re the belle of the ball or sipping libations in the streets, Vienna is the place to be on NYE. The Hofburg Palace hosts its famous and iconic New Year’s Eve Grand Ball. Beyond the palace walls, onlookers gather at Silvesterpfad, or New Year’s Path, in the city center which converts from Christmas markets to New Year’s extravaganza. As St. Stephen’s Cathedral bell tolls and the fireworks begin, the best view is from the Majestic Imperator Train de Luxe, which offers stops around the city and a 5-course gala dinner. Yes please!

Why we love it: It offers the elegance of yesteryear. Doesn’t the lady in each of us crave to don a ball gown and waltz the night away in a palace or elegant train car?

6. MADEIRA ISLANDS

The magic of Madeira on this special night is not to be missed. The fact that the Guiness Book of World Records has noted it as being the world’s largest firework display earns its place as one of the best New Year destinations. Join the Portuguese for what’s sure to be a great party. Enjoy the Christmas lights of the capital Funchal from the sea aboard a catamaran with a glass of bubbly (or even better Madeira wine) in hand, then watch as the sky is set ablaze as you toast to the New Year.

Why we love it: Go big or go home. We’d love to join thousands and see the world’s largest fireworks display, wouldn’t you?

7. NEW…

ORLEANS. You were expecting New York, weren’t you? Of course we love the glitzy ball drop of the Big Apple and its iconic countdown, but we have to admit, we really love the unique vibe of the Big Easy on New Year’s Eve. Celebrate from Jackson Square pulsing with live music performances as the countdown begins. When midnight strikes, folks gather to watch something a little different – the traditional New Orleans fleur-de-lis drop and then the stunning fireworks over the Mississippi River. Make your way to a nightclub in the French Quarter, or a “reveillon dinner” at some of the city’s best restaurants, which offer specially priced multi-course gourmet meals.

Why We Love it: This city’s got soul. It’s a place with a rhythm all its own. Whether it’s for a party or a funeral, the Crescent City sure knows how to express itself through music and festivities, so naturally it makes our top picks for New Year’s.